It is easy to give power to outside conditions, like relationships, health, finances, and education. Some outside conditions make us feel good, but some feel bad like rejection, bad health, being single, and failures. Giving away power to outside conditions is the biggest block for people to experience transformation.

1. The desire to feel good

We all have an innate desire to feel good. That is why we seek out relationships, health, wealth, and education. We want to feel happy and content with our lives. However, when we give our power away to these outside conditions, we are giving up our control. We are no longer in the driver's seat of our own lives. 

2. Giving your power away

When we give our power away, we are essentially saying that we are not good enough as we are. We are not worthy of happiness unless we have a certain job or make a certain amount of money. We are not worthy of love unless we have the perfect partner. We are not worthy of health unless we have the perfect body. This could not be further from the truth! 

3. The power of focus & perception

It is amazing how the power of focus can change our perception and lead to happiness. By choosing to focus on the good, we can find happiness in any situation. When we focus on what is going well, what we are grateful for, and what we can do to make a positive difference, our entire outlook changes. We see the world differently and our experiences are colored by hope, positivity, and possibility. It is a choice that we make every day, and it has the power to transform our lives.


The next time you find yourself feeling down because of an outside condition that is not going your way, remember that your power lies within you—not with the situation itself. You have the power to choose your own happiness. When you start operating from this place of personal power, you will start to see real transformation in your life—inside and out! It’s never too late to create the life you desire and deserve. Let Sanda show you how to achieve it through a joyful and caring process, contact me today.